From Victim to Survivor to Overcomer

Sheltering Wings works to help victims of abuse become survivors. But, it doesn’t stop there. We help survivors become overcomers, no longer defined by the trauma they’ve endured but by the best version of themselves that they bring to the world.

If you are being abused, our goal is to help you recognize your worth as an individual and to support you as you acquire the practical knowledge, skills and experiences you need to live the life God intended for you. If you want to offer your support to people who are experiencing domestic violence, we want to equip and inspire you to make a difference.

Nobody deserves to be abused. If someone is abusing you physically, emotionally, sexually, psychologically, spiritually or financially, it is wrong and it needs to stop immediately. We know that you’re frightened, but reaching out to us is the first step to freeing you from abuse and helping you rebuild your life.

The information provided here is intended to walk you through the basics and to give you tools you can use to make sense of a difficult subject. Please contact us by calling our 24/7 helpline at (317) 745-1496.

Am I being abused?

Abusers will do anything possible to retain power and control over their victims. Routinely, this involves convincing a victim he or she is not being abused. It’s normal for victims to wonder if they are being abused. Are you being abused? Are you unsure? Take a few minutes to complete this assessment and you will have more clarity.

>> Am I being abused?

What is domestic violence?

Although awareness of domestic violence has been growing in our culture, it continues to be the source of many myths and misunderstandings. Here are some of the most important facts about domestic violence.

>> What is domestic violence?

How does domestic violence affect children?

Children and teenagers are the silent victims of domestic violence. Even if they aren’t the target of an abuser’s actions, they suffer lasting emotional damage. We know that 1 in 15 children are exposed to domestic violence each year and 90 percent of these children are eyewitnesses to this violence. Learn more.

>> How does domestic violence affect children?

What should I know about teen dating abuse?

Teens aren’t immune to abusive relationships. In fact, teen dating violence is a rapidly growing problem. We know that one in three adolescents has been verbally, emotionally or physically abused by a dating partner. And it’s not necessarily older teens. It can begin among preteens.

>> Learn about teen dating violence

What do employers need to know?

The effects of domestic violence aren’t limited to the home. In fact, 74% of domestic violence victims report that their abuser has harassed them on the job. Domestic violence costs employers more than $7 million in lost workdays each year. Being prepared to help your employees will not only help your bottom line, but it could also be a lifesaver to your employees.

>> Learn about domestic violence in the workplace

What if I'm not ready to leave?

If you are in an abusive situation and are not able or ready to leave, it’s important to think about how to keep yourself safe. A safety plan can help lower risk and optimize safety during and after the relationship has ended.

>> How do I develop a safety plan?

What happens when I call Sheltering Wings?

Your call will be taken by an individual who wants to help you. He or she will ask questions to better understand your situation and answer any questions you have. We can help you find the specific resources you need, which may include coming to our shelter.

>> What happens when I call?

If you are in immediate danger, call 911 right now.

If you, or someone you know, needs help or wants more information – even if you don’t need emergency shelter – call us.

If you need assistance with other situations, such as financial or housing problems, contact Connect2Help by dialing 211. You’ll be connected with community resources for the help you need.

Additional Resources

Safety Plan

Be prepared in the event you need to flee your abuser.

Embracing Empowerment

Join this support group for survivors of domestic violence.

Non-Shelter Services

Find out how Sheltering Wings can serve you even if you don’t need emergency housing.

Community Resources

Access additional supports in Hendricks County and across Central Indiana.