The Present of Presence

While gifts and material items have their place over the holidays, the sentiment behind ‘the present of presence’ highlights the irreplaceable value of a man’s active involvement and genuine connection with a child. It’s about investing time, attention, and love in the relationship, creating a foundation for healthy and fulfilling bonds.

Spending time with a child sends a powerful message about priorities and values, emphasizing that relationships are more important than material possessions. The phrase ‘presence over presents’ emphasizes the significance of a man’s active and engaged presence in a child’s life.

• Positive Role Modeling:
  • A man who actively participates in a child’s life becomes a positive role model.
• Support and Guidance:
  • Being present allows a man to offer guidance, encouragement, and a sense of security as the child navigates life’s challenges.
• Building Trust:
  • Consistent presence helps build trust between an adult and a child.
• Developmental Impact:
  • An engaged father can positively influence children’s social, emotional, and cognitive development. Interacting with a child during various developmental stages helps nurture their overall well-being.

Need some ideas?

• Volunteer Together:
  • Find a cause where you can volunteer together, engaging in acts of kindness
• Board Games and Puzzles:
  • Game night! Play board games or card games together.
• Music and Dance Party:
  • Have a dance party at home with your favorite music.
• Day Trip Getaway:
  • Plan a day trip to a nearby museum or historical site.

Men, children around us need to be loved and encouraged. Let’s commit this busy holiday season to giving the gift of presence as the most valuable present we can offer.

Ric Basso
Committee Chair
A Man IN Action