Tolerance is a word that stirs strong emotions and conflicting opinions. It is defined as the willingness to demonstrate respect and patience with people who hold opinions that differ from your own. It is a godly character trait. Unfortunately, it is not the norm in a society in which people who hold extreme views often fight, cut, scar and accuse others who think differently by applying the label intolerant.
Many do not want to hear what you think. They are only willing to hear what resonates with their own opinions. We must resist the urge to behave the same way.
Men, navigating today’s politically charged landscape requires tact, compassion, the ability to listen well and an understanding that God has created all of us with free will. In other words, our world needs tolerance. What role can we play?
If culture is to change for the better, it will be the result of our investment in the next generation.
Men IN Action respects the next generation by embracing their challenges and looking for opportunities to make a difference.
This begins at home.
We must let our children see us model appropriate behaviors. Let them be heard. You do not have to agree with each of their opinions. After all, you are fathers, not friends. However, respecting them enough to allow them to voice their positions will train them to adopt that behavior as well.
Being seen and valued by elders in the community is an important developmental asset that we can instill in the next generation of leaders. Take time to enrich the lives of your children, the kids in your neighborhood, your grandchildren and any other young people you may have contact with.
I am working with my son in this area.
We have started a book club. I chose three books and we are reading them at the same time. We compare the stories to what we observe in society. We are having deep conversations and the experience is a connecting point for us as he begins his high school years. It is not important whether or not we draw the same conclusions. What is important, though, is that we spend time together engaged in thoughtful dialogue.
Many of his views are the same as mine; apples don’t fall far from the tree. However, I expect we’ll soon begin to see ways in which our thought processes differ. I want to embrace the differences. I will accept his point of view and remind him to accept mine. In doing this, we will both be forced to practice tolerance, mutual respect, listening and unity in spite of our differences.
We will both grow as men, even though we are in different stages of our lives.
Are you investing?
No matter what stage of life you’re in, you have the capacity – and responsibility – to be a Man IN Action, to invest in the lives of the young people around you. Are you unsure how to get started? Join us at the Men IN Action breakfast on October 1. In addition to a good meal and an inspiring message from special guest Antron Brown, you’ll learn more about how to invest in the next generation.
We’re all responsible for the culture around us. If we’ll work together to faithfully shape young people, we create the likelihood that our influence will outlive us. What are you waiting for? Join me!
In Christ,
Jarod Turner
Executive Director, AJAA
A Man IN Action
P.S. Due to social distancing protocol, the Men IN Action breakfast registration will close once 125 men have registered. It’s first-come-first-served so register for free today!
Thursday, Oct. 1
7:30-9 am
Washington Township Park Pavilion
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