Spring 2023 Newsletter

“Without Sheltering Wings, I would be dead.”

– Keiko, a survivor of domestic violence

I grew up in a loving family. I was my father’s little princess — my world was kind, full of smiles, and I lacked nothing.

If only I could go back and warn the younger me. If I could only save myself from experiencing the horrors of what was to come.

After moving in with my boyfriend, he quickly became verbally, financially, emotionally, and physically abusive. He would abuse me to the point of bruises and broken bones.

He would then insist that I wear makeup to cover the cuts and bruises, to save him from what he called “embarrassment” from being seen with me in public. He didn’t want others to see my bruises and scratches — but they were so large
that I knew even makeup wouldn’t be able to cover them up.

His final abusive explosion sent me to the hospital for two weeks.

The medical team that was helping me recommended that I call Sheltering Wings, and I did.

I was scared. I had nothing – no clothes, no shoes, no personal belongings. And I had this picture of what I imagined shelter life to be like, and it wasn’t good. I pictured cold, dank rooms – a depressing scene.

But when I walked into Sheltering Wings, I was so surprised! This place was nothing like I had pictured in my mind.

I was immediately met with care and compassion. I made close friends with the other residents. It’s so nice to have someone who understands what you’ve gone through and doesn’t minimize the abuse.

The classes might be my favorite part of staying here! I graduated from Domestic Violence 101 and loved the Financial Stability class. I’ve learned so much that will help me live on my own after I leave here.

Being at Sheltering Wings has helped me so much. I’ve been able to grow, learn, and reconcile my relationship with my daughter and my mother.

Without Sheltering Wings, I would be dead. This place saved my life.

Thank you, for saving my life.