I volunteered with the youth group at my church for about 10 years. I loved it! They helped me learn how to use features on my phone. They taught me hip, new words to keep me relevant (and they are cringing right now that I used the word “hip”). They kept me up into late hours of the night with chick flicks, ice cream runs and the game Spoons. But my favorite memories are the long chats about life, faith, love and family. We were able to talk about the things that matter most to them.
That is just one of the reasons I think our opportunity to go into schools to talk about healthy relationships is so critical. We know how important relationships are to teens. When we visit schools we talk to students about how to practice and insist on healthy relationships among friends and romantic partners.
In this month’s blog, our own Melissa Echerd shares a story about how easily digital technology can turn into a tool of control in a relationship. In one particular case, a young woman repeatedly checking on her boyfriend’s whereabouts via his phone had no idea she was exhibiting signs of distrust and insecurity (at best) or abusive control (at worst).
Getting information to teens is the best way to prevent dating abuse. Visit Teens That Talk to learn more about how to help.
If you’re a teen who cares – or if you know one who does – consider joining Teens That Talk. This group of students is working to raise awareness about teen dating violence in their schools, communities and social circles through education, fundraisers, social media campaigns and volunteering.
Thank you for your support and continued partnership in preventing domestic abuse!